WHAT LUCY WORE: Polka Dotted Tomboy

Lucy of Making Nice in the Midwest

It’s funny how every month I find myself saying “THIS is my favorite age!” Every day this kiddo is more fun than the day before. And I am loving the fact that I’m her favorite person. At least, today I am. Lucy’s almost 15 months, her favorite toy is her Teddy, she looooves my glasses, her favorite thing to say is “ball,” and her hair actually trails down her back. She’s still not walking, and I’m counting my blessings!

You know, now that I think about it, her new favorite toy might be the Christmas tree. Oh boy oh boy. Like I said, life is fun! Seriously, though. I think about how dark my mind was this time last year, and this child helped get me through it. And now she’s my little reward. I thank God for her, and I don’t mind how cheesy I sound when I say it.

Lucy’s sweater is vintage (thrifted), and her pants are from Carter’s

Lucy of Making Nice in the Midwest

Lucy's bedroom from Making Nice in the Midwest

Lucy of Making Nice in the Midwest

Lucy of Making Nice in the Midwest

Lucy of Making Nice in the Midwest

Lucy's bedroom from Making Nice in the Midwest

Lucy of Making Nice in the Midwest

Lucy of Making Nice in the Midwest

A New Season of Life

college game day at our house

The Johnson family has was catapulted into a season of change when Lucy was born and I got my cancer diagnosis. 2013 seemed like the year our lives were thrown into the air, while we stood on the ground and waited to find out where the pieces would fall. Well, the year’s almost over, and finally we’re beginning to settle into a new season of life, and it feels pretty darn good.

This year I’ve been working on a lot of odd jobs, and began to really think about what kind of work would make me the happiest. I was doing photography, web design, blogging, selling on Etsy, writing for Babble, and balancing it all was exhausting! I came to the conclusion that I needed some kind of job outside the home. A job that didn’t require me to manage my productivity, e-mails, client demands, and that sort of thing. So when a friend of mine left her job at Starbucks, she offered to hook me up with her old position. So I said yes! It felt incredibly impulsive, but it turned out to be exactly what I needed. I only work about 15 hours a week there, just enough that the paycheck is helpful, but I don’t dread heading in to each shift. In fact, I sometimes look forward to it! And I love my coworkers and actually getting to be around real live people, without a computer screen in between us. It was a good opportunity that came along at the right time.

Also, after years of shooting photos for this blog, Phil finally joined me in my photography business this past Summer! I’ve been shooting freelance for a few years now, but now we shoot together as husband and wife, and the amount of stress that’s lifted from my mind is immense. I always know who my second shooter will be now, I know he’s great with people, and I know all of our equipment is compatible. Ahem. ;) We rebranded our business and created a new website for our photog biz called Ohio Fresh Photo.

In addition to photography, some of you might remember that I have worked with Freckled Nest doing web design work for a few years now. After my surgery in March, I slowed down my client load, and really enjoyed time away from client work. Freckled Nest is moving in a new direction, so we’ve all decided to move on to do our own things.

Writing for Babble was another job that came along at the right time, when I was finishing my cancer treatment and was spending a lot of time recuperating at home. It allowed me to work in my pajamas if necessary, and take care of Lucy and things on the homefront. It was a great opportunity, but when I was approached by the girls at A Beautiful Mess to become a contributor for their website, I had to say yes! I’ve always loved getting crafty and styling shoots, but this personal blog of mine never took off in a way that made such endeavors financially feasible. So working with Elsie and the gang is a dream come true!

It’s always a little awkward when I meet new people and they ask me what I do. My friends joke that I wear lots of hats. Literally and figuratively. But I’m beginning to start taking off some of those preverbal hats and streamlining my life a bit. I’m hoping to close down my Etsy shop, Fine & Dandy Vintage, to make room in our home and my life for other things. And after doing that, I’ll only have three jobs to lay claim to: Barista, photographer, and project creator for A Beautiful Mess. Whew! Ch-ch-changes! But I’m feelin’ good about it all.

Check out my first project for A Beautiful Mess- DIY Porcelain Holiday Tree Lights. They look so cute lit up in our home, and Lucy loves them!

porcelain tree lights DIY

 

Ice Cream Date on a Snow Day

The snow fell so heavily and for so long that not many people wanted to brave the roads for their morning lattes. I was sent home early from my barista gig and decided to seize the day and take Lucy out for ice cream! Ice cream before lunch! Because it’s my job to teach Lucy about appropriate activities for snow days.

A few months ago, Lucy had her very first taste of ice cream at Milk and Honey, our favorite Canton ice cream parlor. Her world was changed forever. We make healthy balanced meals for her at home, but seeing her delight in the occasional indulgence is such a joy for me! Besides, Lucy won’t let me eat treats in peace any more without tugging on my arm and squealing and signing for more. I’m learning quickly that whatever I do, she will want to do too. I’ve thought a lot about making a complete overhaul- not eating sugar, no gluten, etc, to set a good example for our family. But the fact of the matter is that would make me miserable. So I’ve just come to terms with the fact that Lucy will enjoy eating ice cream and donuts. And that’s normal. And that’s okay. And I’m letting go of the guilt.

P.S. I know I probably haven’t mentioned it here on the blog, but I did get a job outside the home working as a barista. I’ll tell you more later about what’s been going on with my life. I’ve been stepping out of jobs and into new ones- it’s overwhelming and exciting and just all so new! I’m learning a whole new balancing act, but things are going really well.

Right now I’m off to work on some exciting new projects as well as to make a couple of pies to share with family tomorrow. Happy Thanksgiving, friends!

Lucy is wearing this dress, I’m wearing all vintage
photos by Phil Johnson

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